SLUT.
What do you think about when you hear that word?
The image I cannot dispel is of CUNTESSA'S contorted face, calling me a SLUT, after she read SAVE IT FOR A CHICK WHO WANTS TO HEAR YA TALK. She insists it's SLUTTY to have NO STRINGS ATTACHED (NSA) SEX. At this stage of my life, I think it's SLUTTY not to.
I'd be LYING if I offered any other option. I'm picky and not afraid to be alone. I value my time and body too much to wait for the guy who gets me, wants to be with me and that I WANT TO BE WITH, TOO.
At nearly forty, few men have proven what it takes to convince me to give up the lifestyle I enjoy. Not to mention the fact I have too little time to waste.
So, I could SLUT around, pretending to be into something I'm not - just to be a greedy bitch and get all the men. OR. I can save my time for the ones who are like me and *GET ME?* hmmm...
What is a SLUT?
Like most ignorant people,Cuntessa considers someone who enjoys multiple partners, without a committed relationship a SLUT.
To her and anyone else who hasn't a clue to REALITY, I'll fill ya in.
A SLUT is someone who fucks around with a person they know is in a committed, monogamous, relationship or, is in a committed, monogamous relationship and fucks around. PERIOD.
ANYWAY.
One thing I gotta tell you is that I subscribe to the idea that monogamy is a MYTH, created by deceit or inexperience.
*YUP. I SAID THAT.*
You can be pissed at me, or whatever, but I firmly believe men cannot help their reaction to desire. They NEED to act on what happens to their bodies, physically, when they get turned on. Imagine what a nightmare it would be to have a penis?
What must it be like to have something hanging from your body that jumps to attention with or without instigation from you?
I hate most of the chick stuff (I gotta bleed from WHERE? Every month! Really?), but I'll take it all instead of that, any day of the week!
I am so glad I'm a girl!
Erection happens, whether men want it to, or not. Men act on it because THEY NEED TO. If their "partner" is not sexual, they will do it alone, until they find someone who will reciprocate.
I'm sorry, but it's true.
Men cannot help it.
Besides that.
Everyone gets bored.
And, NO ONE should have to be!
If you're lucky enough to be in a committed relationship, GIVE SEX! People need it. Make them happy. It's VERY IMPORTANT!
Just know, if you are not getting it on, this is when the relationship is on the brink, or deep in disaster! Really. No sex is a major sign that your relationship needs work.
Unfortunately, people are asleep to how much of a time-waster deceit is. They are willing to do and say anything to avoid dealing with TRUTH.
WHY BOTHER?
I just don't *get it*.
If you're in a sexless relationship with an able bodied partner, I encourage you to check yourself for the smell of deceit. It's coming from you (denial) or your partner (SLUT). OR BOTH.
Just sayin'.
One thing I know for sure, I would only commit to an OPEN RELATIONSHIP. When the honey moon ends, be upfront about status, don't talk to me about details (unless I'm in that mood, ahem), and keep it REAL with me. The man I'll commit to knows the difference between heads, heart and what's mine.
Please, don't make shit up!
I'd rather you hurt me BRIEFLY ONCE.
Liars think they are controlling something.
I'm the only DIRECTOR of my LIFE.
*GET IT?*
Anyone who claims to be in a relationship, but seeks outside entertainment is a LYING SLUT, which is the worst kind. Believe me when I tell ya, if a person is cheating on their mate to be with YOU - you aren't special, just the next idiot to add to a long list of them.
You may "win" the object of your affection (YOU SLUT), but be prepared to be cheated on, too. Cheaters are cheaters FOREVER. This is a flaw that will never go away - NOT EVEN FOR YOU.
Personally, I've never been into cheaters, or been one. Cheating seems stupid to me. I'd rather not be in a committed relationship (like now - and probably forever). Men deal, or don't deal. Good news, there are lots. And, I never go near anyone I think may be in any kind of relationship status. I just don't dig taking second place.
There is a big difference in being second fiddle in a relationship (number one priority slot is taken - BADLY!) versus just seeing different people (no priority). For example, cheater will not answer the phone OFTEN to hide their fling from their "true love."
Friends with benefits always answer, as long as they can.
NOTE: Dishonesty cowers around cheaters like a snake ready to choke ya from the drama headed (or already in) your way.
My regular readers know my N.S.A. tat resulted in a relationship with Sherlock. He was a LYING SLUT, who led me to believe he was about to be divorced, while he toyed with my emotions for months. His manipulation was the final straw in a string of bad "relationships" that made me decide I DON'T WANT ONE.
No strings attached works for me. Save the drama for your mama, boys. Your lines of bullshit are lost on someone like me, I could care less. FOR REALS.
Sherlock was the third married SLUT I've been propositioned by in my life. The first two were honest about the women they used to raise their kids and do their chores. They were greedy PIGS, for sure, but at least they respected ME enough to be upfront WITH ME about their status.
Sherlock stole, then promptly lost, what committed men will never have: ME.
I have no respect for anyone who cheats because it represents a wimpy way to live. I am of the school of thought that LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LIVE A LIE, or avoid myself for anyone. Even someone who pays the bills, cooks, cleans or does my laundry. That's just LAME, fellas! So, fuck OFF.
I'd rather be upfront. Heck, that's why I got my tattoo. Any questions, check the back. It ain't going anywhere...
Um, YEAH.
I'LL TELL YA WHO'S A SLUT!
'Till Next Time,
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